Here is why Men really cheat !

According to research, about 20 percent of people committed to a monogamous relationship are due to cheat sooner or later. Researches have also shown that the real reasons behind cheating are not the same for men and women.

When asked about their reasons, in spite of the gender, those who cheat will always have justifications. Those excuses make it look acceptable for them to cheat, and make them feel less culpable.

Here are some examples of the pretended reasons men cheat :

All men do this. It’s how we’re made.
My wife is fat, so am looking elsewhere.
After having kids, my wife is often tired and refuses to have sex as much as I want. what can I do?
My job is so stressful. I need to release the stress.
It is just flirting.It is not like hooking up with someone else.

All those evoked reasons are various forms of one single thing : DENIAL ! And if a man keeps on popping out those excuses, then he is not ready to change, and he will probably keep on cheating.

So what are the real reasons that drive men elsewhere ?

Insecurity :
So whenever the chance comes to make them feel wanted, worthy and attractive they won’t turn it away. They have a constant desire for validation. Insecure men are not all cheaters but this is one of the most common real reasons for cheating.

High expectations :
Men who want of their wives to answer to their desires on the round clock are most often of the times disappointed. Because, who can every fancy and desire, sexual or otherwise, 24 hours, 7 days, and without complaining. No one can. So, those men would look out for more satisfaction in cheating.

Confusion between sexuality and intimacy :
The intensity of the first attraction, the rush of desire and the burning lust that comes in the beginning of relationships, is something that drives some men to constantly look for a new romance. They ignore the more rewarding ease, comfort, trust and support that come with the intimacy of long relationships.

Addiction :
Sometimes they have an issue with alcohol or drugs, and these substances affect their decision making, leading to impulsive sexual decisions.

Absence of the intention of faithfulness :
They just never intended to be always bound to one single person. This kind of man can easily live with lies, secrets, and no remorse.